Yes , I am MARRIED .

[I have experienced marriage for 24 years now and must say it is quite an fulfilling experience for ME . I will not be wrong in saying that pre-marriage and post marriage thought process is completely different for both husband and wife . It is only when you are in the relationship do you realize that the relationship requires a wholistic approach rather than individual wish list being fulfilled . During the course of 24 years I also saw various emotions move sometimes into a high and then sometimes into a low but overall life is good ]

What truly is Marriage ?

Is it a physical bond , bond of two souls , bond because of need bond because of the society , bond because of fashion ……?


Different people express it differently -> some say it is one of the most celebrated human bond between a man and a women , some say it is one of the milestones in journey of life without which the life is incomplete and the experience hollow , some classify marriage as a pious bond . Marriage truly binds body and soul and completes the need of companionship – togetherness .


Solemnizing Marriage

Any Region : Any Religion , Any Cast : Any Creed the ceremony may be dealt differently viz the solemnizing of the relationship in the Church with the Father reading the BIBLE , in Gurdwara Sahab reading the Guru Granth Sahab , in Masjid reading the Nikaha Nama , in Temple reading Mantras or in other formats all lead to -> bonding of man with woman of one cast , color , creed , religion , background with the same or other .


Ultimately Marriage is a commitment made between a man and a women to stand by each other till eternity .Commitment not only to stand by each other but also to understand each other ,understand each one’s need physical , social , psychological.

Marriage requires jointly planning the life ahead (family planning), making each party to all decision making so far as family is concerned .


Sharing , Communicating , Trusting makes the bond stronger . All make mistakes – forgiveness is an important virtue which both husband and wife should consider at such times .

Love , Emotion , Compassion , Empathy all are important ingredients of a fulfilling marriage .

Marriage is a responsibility – responsibility not only between husband and wife , not only between families of husband and wife not also towards extending the family but also towards contributing to the society in creating a harmonious social environment


Every married couple have their own experience their own story . Some have painful tales to tell and some have joyful stories to narrate . For some marriage was an event planned by their parents and for some it was a long relationship which eventuated into marriage .

Marriage is Divine , Marriage is Destined .

[Young age marriage , Late marriage . Marriage within community : Marriage outside community Inter cast Marriage Arranged Marriage – Love Marriage – Love but Arranged Marriage Widow Marriage Live in relationship but no marriage & now Same Sex Marriage ] some of the formats of marriage

(I have written the above short note on what I understand on “Marriage” . You may like it or you may not , we can agree or agree to disagree . These are my personal thoughts )

Will write on Husband and Wife Relationship Next ………..

Sanjeev Kathuria is an entrepreneur and accomplished expert in a variety of areas pertaining to Real Estate such as land buying, liasoning, marketing, sales, construction and development. His chief interests lie in strategic sales and marketing as well as business development. Over the last decade, he has sold inventory worth Rs. 13,000 crores. Sanjeev’s strong value system and his integrity and commitment to his customers has been appreciated by everybody he has worked with. His new initiative of delivering quality content about real estate has been lauded by numerous industrialists and industry leaders.

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